favorites followed by dislikes

books
War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy (obviously)
Perfect Victims and the Politics of Appeal by Mohmmed El-Kurd
Unrepentant Whore: The Collected Works of Scarlot Harlot by Carol Leigh
Revolting Prostitutes: The Fight for Sex Workers’ Rights by Molly Smith and Juno Mac
Discourse on Colonialism by Aimé Césaire
Secrets by Sheila Holland
films
Jeanne Dielman, 23, quai du Commerce, 1080 Bruxelle (1975, dir. Chantal Akerman)
The Leopard (1963, dir. Luchino Visconti)
Rocco and His Brothers (1960, dir. Luchino Visconti)
A Farewell to Arms (1932, dir. Frank Borzage)
Harakiri (1962, dir. Masaki Kobayashi)
Written on the Wind (1956, dir. Douglas Sirk; saw on 35mm at The Hollywood Theatre with intro by Todd Haynes)
Hard Truths (2024, dir. Mike Leigh)
Working Girls (1986, dir. Lizzie Borden)
War and Peace Part IV: Pierre Bezukhov (1967, dir. Sergei Bondarchuk)
articles / posts
the sex wars (continued). – by Raechel Anne Jolie *exhausted sigh* anti-sex work arguments are boring, dangerous, & usually smell like rich people.
a grrrl on “Girl on Girl” – by Raechel Anne Jolie thoughts on Sophie Gilbert’s new book, a plea for pleasure, & yes, Sabrina Carpenter’s album cover
What to do about the decline of the humanities. Stop complaining and just read the best books that you can and talk about them.
Media Literacy Is Not Good Enough – by sam bodrojan a personal holistic theory of criticism
Unremarkable Obstinate Tremors – by sam bodrojan on being young and sober, still
romance discoursing (#2) – by Sanjana – scratch paper talking about how we talk about romance
Bride to the King – by Chels – The Loose Cravat
Actually, Romance Novel Print Sales are Down …compared to romance print sales from the last 40 years
Emma from Restorative Romance has revisited her Bodice Ripper and Marital Rape Laws project; as of June 2025, there are five posts in this series:
- correlation present, causation unclear – by Emma part I: bodice retribution
- precedents and citing decisions – by Emma part II: bodice deterrence
- the origins of harm – by Emma – restorative romance part III: The Flame and the Flower
- the trend line will not hold – restorative romance part IV: bodice responses
- Lisa Kleypas as Bodice Ripper Lite™ – restorative romance part V: bodice avoidance
Story Basics #3: Scenes – by Brandon – sweater weather where all the stuff happens
Uber’s Bastards – by Edward Ongweso Jr – The Tech Bubble On the ride-hail model and the gig economy’s metastasis.
Rescuing our recipes: Preserving Palestinian culture in times of war As Palestine is witnessing another Nakba, what is the fate of its gastronomy?
There is Only Shame • Protean Magazine the necessity for anti-Zionist Jews to face the truth: a neat bifurcation of Judaism and Zionism is neither possible nor politically useful.
You Can’t Have Sex in Your Skims | HALOSCOPE Kim Kardashian’s new “ultimate butt” shapewear promises the perfect body – by covering your real body in foam and nylon. But when did we take the “sex” out of “sexy”?
In Praise of Excess: Queer Maximalism in the Films of Joel Schumacher by Alejandra Martinez
Longing & Lust in Luca Guadagnino’s ‘Challengers’ and ‘Queer’ I Am Queer; I Am Embodied: Longing and Lust in Challengers and Queer
The Magnificence of Tony Todd – by Angelica Jade Bastién In honor of the actor’s passing I wrote about his tremendous and remarkably different performances in “Candyman” (1992) and the “Star Trek: Deep Space Nine” 1995 episode “The Visitor”.
Michael Mann on ‘Heat 2’ and the Redemption of ‘Thief’
in memoriam – David Lynch
The Evil That Men Do – by Peter Raleigh – Long Library
Why So Many Sex Workers Love David Lynch | Autostraddle
Max Nelson, Women in Trouble — Sidecar
Nothing Will Die, Especially Not David Lynch
Laura Dern’s letter to David Lynch: You wove L.A. into our dreams – Los Angeles Times
I did not like it
too many SWERFs on substack (and everywhere else)
any source writing about romance with links to purchase books.
media pieces about the death of historical romance – there were so many that repeated the same things without actually accounting for how or even if historical romance is dying. I’m not saying sales are not down – I’m asking sincerely where are the numbers and was historical romance ever really the highest earner of all the romance subgenres?
this blurb about Beau Crusoe by Carla Kelly from The New York Times:1

I hate everything about this review except the final sentence. This review, to me, is everything I hate about how people write and talk about romance and more broadly, why you can’t watch any film in a theater without loser fucks laughing at disturbing scenes. Haha traumatic experiences are so FUNNY!! Of course, this review blew up all over romancelandia and everyone laughed about the cannibalism of it all without considering the TRAUMA of it all. Beau Crusoe actually is bold romance that does not shy away from things humans do to survive and how that can follow you for the rest of your life. It’s thorny, not easy to sit with; Kelly (imo) makes some big missteps but that doesn’t change how impressed I was with the book. Anyway, fuck this review and fuck the New York Times.
*I hit post before including books or films I didn’t like!
films
I rewatched movies I don’t like but enjoy watching (Girl, It’s Complicated, Mallrats) but I did not watch anything I really dislike (yet!).
books
I Want You Back by Lorelei James
The Merchant Match by Jenna Bigelow
A Tempest of Desire by Lorraine Heath
- I only saw a screenshots of this blurb, so I don’t know how the other books in this “article” were blurbbed. ↩︎
